Why is it so hard for me to manifest?
Do you ever wonder why your manifestation isn’t appearing? You thought you and the universe were “vibin’” and had an agreement – feeling the feelings, expecting the good stuff? It all can happen quickly – the genie coming out of the lamp – as we hear of soulmates. And then,,, nothing!
The first assumption when an expectation doesn’t manifest: That something has gone wrong. Negative thoughts, insufficient effort, and being undeserving have been some of my thoughts in the past, yet none of these were true.
Over the years I’ve come to realize that although it felt like a failure, The key to manifesting is to match our energy to the things we desire.
To achieve this, we must ask ourselves how we would feel when our goals are realized—love, freedom, happiness, or even relief. This is what is meant when people advise to “feel the feelings”.
Starting small…
When I wanted to manifest money, I started small, beginning with £10 and gradually increasing to £50, £100 and eventually reaching £300. In 2018, I asked the universe to help me manifest £1300 a month after I had been made redundant. Now I’m manifesting £7k+ per
Holding onto your manifestation with desperation only signals to the universe that there is a lack of trust. To put it in perspective; imagine ordering food in a restaurant and impatiently waiting outside the kitchen, doubting the chef and your food. To help relieve yourself of the inner tension.
Don’t hold on too tight…
Hold on to your manifestation loosely. Have faith and trust that it will come to fruition at the appropriate time, but also take proactive steps toward your goal. Assign yourself a few simple tasks like visualising it happening each week or scripting it once a month. Place pictures of it on your vision board too.
At times our manifestation isn’t producing results because it’s just not the right TIME for it. Divine timing is critical in life’s journey – thank God I didn’t get that job or moved when I did. Now I strongly believe that the right thing will come in its own TIME.
When people reach out to me about failed chances of manifesting their dream house, they eventually come back telling me that wasn’t actually what they wanted but they’ve found something even better – something that was always awaiting in the background. This may lead us to believe we have achieved our goal, only to be severely disappointed when
This is just a transitional period; she’s preparing you for something better. Things you don’t want are currently being highlighted, and you’re transitioning to abundance. So, even though this can be uncomfortable, it is necessary for something even greater to arrive.